Go to the confinement center on the 10th day after delivery
1. The environment is not perfect
no matter how perfect the conditions and facilities are, the confinement center is no more casual than the one you live in. It's completely your own space without other people's interference. After all, the confinement center has the nature of a hotel. It is impossible for all items to be complete. There will always be some kind of regret
2. We can't provide personalized food service
in many confinement centers, the most difficult problem to solve is the diet problem, because the postpartum time of each puerpera is different, the degree of gastrointestinal recovery is also different, and the diet time and diet habits of many puerpera are different, so the diet of confinement center is difficult to adjust. Although there is a professional dietitian to prepare the diet, it is impossible to provide diet service for each indivial
3. It is easy to involve the energy of family members
mothers live in the confinement center, so it's inevitable for them to be accompanied and visited by their families. Many new fathers are busy working in the company ring the day, and they have to rush to the confinement center to accompany their wives after work. One month's time is really a drag on the husband's energy
4. It is easy to lead to family alienation
many mothers in law are dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law entering the confinement center, as if the cohesion of the family has disappeared. At the same time, in the eyes of the older generation, the confinement center is not as functional and comprehensive as home in any case, so it is easy to cause indifference between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In addition, going to the confinement center undoubtedly provides a chance for the new father to extricate himself. When you need the husband's care and consideration most, the husband doesn't know where he is busy working, socializing and entertaining, which is undoubtedly detrimental to the maintenance of the marriage relationship.
I think it's definitely necessary. Listen to me
1. Novice mothers really don't know anything
their girlfriends give birth naturally. They go home to take delivery three days after birth. They don't wash their babies, change their diapers, and breast feed their babies in the right posture. See here you want to say that the hospital has prenatal training! But I'm sorry, when I was in the hospital, I really just gathered every mother to watch video teaching and rubber baby demonstration. I had no actual experience of taking care of my baby
1. Let's talk about nursing first. Because the labor cost is relatively high, we basically use cheap Yuesao. I won't talk about the level of Yuesao. , I'll be alone after a month. It's OK in the first few days. After half a journey, I can't wake up. Falling children often happens, and most of them spend money
generally speaking, there are three choices for a child in confinement, one is to take care of her family, the other is to ask her to take care of her, and the third is to go to the confinement center. If you don't have a family to take care of your baby, you can consider asking your sister-in-law to stay at home. Yuesao's expenses range from thousands to 120000< if you are worried that your sister-in-law will not agree with you, you can choose to go to the confinement center, which costs tens of thousands to 100000 yuan. The confinement center will arrange the nutrition meal for the puerpera and send it to the room. When the puerpera rest, there will be a special nurse to take care of the baby
the cost of the child care center is higher, but pregnant women can get better rest. If the cost is affordable, it is recommended to choose a child care center
These 28 days in the confinement center are really like a queen's life. They have been greatly satisfied both mentally and physically, and have effectively alleviated all kinds of bad emotions after childbirth
if the budget is not enough, it is very difficult to choose a good sister-in-law and a good child care center. Choose the best solution in the range of ability. Many well-known Yuesao have to make an appointment one year in advance. The same goes for the confinement center, but it's almost the same for the confinement center. In both instries, there will be good and bad. Husband and wife should learn about each other and choose the right one according to their family relationship and economic strength. Choose the right comfortable confinement, choose the wrong do not blame each other, do not regret why not choose another